I know some of you have been waiting a week to read Porter's birth story so here goes...
I had an appt on Thursday before Porter was born and was told I was 4 cm, nearly completely effaced and the head was engaged. My doctor thought I wouldn't make it past the weekend without delivering but scheduled an appt for the next Wednesday just in case I hadn't delivered. I went home and we went about our business and I still was only have a few contractions here and there. Saturday morning I think I had three or four contractions but nothing to start timing. We enjoyed a lazy Saturday...Kit & Henry ran to Lowe's and I finished cleaning a few things here and there. During Henry's nap I ran to Kohl's and did a little Fall clothes shopping for H and came home in time to leave shortly to head north and pick up my mom. She was able to come down with some family of my cousins so we said we would pick her up at my cousins house which is an hour away. Right before we hopped in the car, I had a contraction. And, once we started down the interstate, they were coming regularly...every five minutes, lasting one minute and intense! But, after getting out of the car after arriving they subsided. We decided to quickly head back home just in case they came on again, we wanted my mom and H to be settled. Once again, shortly after hitting the road, they started up again...every five minutes, lasting one minute. We were almost home when they stopped completely and I was still feeling good. So, I showed my mom a few of my lists and where things were just in case we had to head to the hospital in the middle of the night...I remember I gave H an extra long hug and kiss at bedtime and was so glad I did...
We went to bed about 10 30p and at the time, I wondered if I didn't have a slow water leak but it was very minimal, so we just went to bed to try and get some sleep. About 2 30a I woke up noticing even more and at that time knew my bag of water had ruptured. I called the office and right away the on call doc returned my call and recommended that we headed on into the hospital. But, knowing that I wasn't wanting to do an epidural gave me the okay to hang out at home a bit but
definitely wanted us to be at the hospital by 7 30a. Well, after I hung up the phone, I tried to go back to sleep but the excitement was too much. I knew that my baby would be delivered that day, on Sunday, for sure! Shortly after I laid down, Kit woke up and by 4am we decided to head to the hospital since we weren't getting any rest anyway and we were anxious to get the show on the road! So, Kit hopped in the shower and I finished packing my bag and writing my mom a note that we were leaving. It was about 5 am
It was strange driving to the hospital with ZERO contractions...when I walked into Labor & Delivery they really didn't believe that I was there to have a baby and quite frankly, I couldn't either. The whole process was really slow and laid back since I was having no contractions. The nurse checked me and I was at 6 cm at about 7am. Around 7 30a my doctor arrived and we agreed that since I was positive for a ruptured bag of water that we needed to start the process...so, they started a slow IV drip of
Pitocin...that wasn't until about 8 45a. The
Pitocin is a pretty intense drug and what I experienced with it reminded me of what it was like when I was at 9-10 cm with Henry so it took
alot of focus and me reminding myself to stay calm knowing I had to get from 6-10cm and I knew I still didn't want an epidural. The
pictocin was
alot more intense than my labor with Henry and it actually made me nauseated so they had to bump the
meds back for a while but at that point, my body kicked in and started contracting on it's own. Around 10 30a I was complete and ready to push. I pushed for just about an hour as Porter was born at 11 38 a. I have to give my husband a huge shout out. He did such a great job this time and was a super excellent coach! He was actually cheering me on (not sipping juice like last time!;) and was able to shout out, "It's a BOY!" when Porter arrived. The doctor and nurses had a lot of fun guessing all morning on what the baby would be so we were ALL anxious to know by 11 38 a :).
For someone who was so active during my pregnancy, Porter came out without crying and to me looked very pale. It made us both very nervous but the doctor said that not only did Porter have a short umbilical cord but, it was wrapped around his neck. They laid him on my chest (Which they didn't do with Henry because of his delivery) which was an awesome experience but shortly I was asking them to take him to get checked about because I was really wanting to hear him cry. The nurses and doctors checked him all out and was concerned about his blood sugar but in the end they determined he was just stressed from the cord but was perfectly healthy. Meanwhile, when they were checking him out, I had a small complication of excessive bleeding so poor Kit was back and forth between the two of us for a while. Eventually after more blood loss, I was given some meds and we were held up in labor and delivery for alot longer than I was with Henry being monitored continually by the sweet nursing staff. They also kept checking Porter's blood sugar but it was always within normal range.
Finally, at 3 00p, we were able to switch floors and head to postpartum which I received "extra special treatment" for the next 24 hours before being cleared as "normal".
We enjoyed the time to relax in the hospital and spend time with Porter, but we were definitely anxious to get home and see our Henry.
But, the morning of our dismissal, the rounding Nurse Prac came into our room and said she heard a heart murmur on Porter. She then refused discharge for Porter until seen by the Pediatric Cardiologist. So, we had to wait from 11:00a to 4:00p with nothing to do but pray for Porter. At 4:00p the nicest, sweetest, experienced Pediatric Cardiologist from the Children's Hospital came over and declared Porter perfectly healthy and normal! He saw no need for further testing and sent us home!
We are so thankful for God's hand of protection on both of us and are so thankful for the sweet blessing Porter is to our family. We are now a family of four! :) :)
Henry is adjusting well and for the most part, doesn't act like anything has changed. He'll walk by and ask if Porter is stinky or if he cries, will grab the pacifier. I think right now he is enjoying time with his Memaw and is focused on her right now. And, Kit has been off all week so of course they've been doing alot of boy things around the house :).
I am feeling great! We've been going on walks, hitting the outlets, running some errands here and there and making sure I am caught up on sleep.
Porter is doing so well! He eats every three hours during the day and about 4-5 hours at night. Last night I only got up once in the middle of the night!
Porter has an appointment on Tuesday so I am anxious to see how much he weighs...he is already getting a little more chub on those cheeks!
:)